Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Suffering...痛苦...


When we see a friend suffering, what do we do? We help them of course. When a friend is suffering constantly by the same factor, what do you do? You will obviously try to help them and comfort them. Today I realized that no matter how much you comfort this person, he will never recover. I wish he would because breaking up with a girl is a stage in our lives that we must go through at one point. If you don't have to go through this, then you are one of the good and lucky ones. Nobody should ever suffer this much because of love. It should only linger for a certain amount of time. The constant suffering will cause the soul to break and therefore making the person depressed all the time. Being depressed about something isn't always the best thing. To my friend that is suffering, you should forget about that girl and just move on with life.

當 我們看到一位朋友的痛苦,怎麼辦?我們幫助他們的課程。當一個朋友是痛苦不斷由同一因素,你怎麼辦?您將明顯設法幫助他們,並安慰他們。今天,我認識到, 無論有多少你舒適這個人,他將永遠無法恢復。我想他會因為打破了一個女孩是一個階段,我們的生活,我們必須通過在一分。如果你沒有經歷這一點,那你就是一 個很好的和幸運的。任何人都不應受到任何時候都多,因為這種愛情。它應該只停留在一定的時間。不斷痛苦的靈魂會打破,因此使所有的人沮喪的時候。被壓抑的 事情並不總是最好的。我的朋友就是痛苦,你應該忘記那個女孩和公正的前進與生活。

2 comments:

  1. Just a little note. Being depressed about something isn't a good thing, but it happens. People slowly get over it. I've read about some relationships that are easier to get over than others. This one person had a 3 year relationship and broke up. They felt bad about it but wasn't fully depressed. When they went out with another person the girl had spoken a lot about the future. So they spent much time fantasizing together. Then the guy discovered that she was cheating on him after only a couple of months. He became more depressed over this than the relationship that lasted 3 years because of all the fantasizing that they did. Now in the fantasy that he had the other guy had stepped in and she didn't care about him. I think that if you think more towards being together forever as he had, all the fantasies seem to become near realities. Or want it to become reality. This would make it much harder to accept what had happened and take a lot more time to mend.

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